Saturday, July 28, 2007

Visualization

To create a mental image or visualization, use these steps.

Step 1: Close your eyes and think of the goal of the visualization, e.g., to practice a new behavior or skill, to change a mood, to reinforce a positive behavior, or to assign a negative image to old cues.
Step 2: Picture the positive outcome after your goal is achieved.
Step 3: Put yourself in the picture and begin to experience the image in three dimensions. a) How do you look? Thin, happy, skillful, talented, on target, proud. b) How do you feel? Happy, excited, satisfied, competent, at ease, relaxed, "with it." c) How is your body reacting? Relaxed, appropriate, athletic, responsive, skillful, taut, strong, graceful.
Step 4: Picture how others react to you in this imagined activity, e.g., are they rewarding you, reinforcing you, complimenting you, thanking you, accepting you, asking you for a date?
Step 5: Picture how you react to the others' response, e.g., excited, appreciated, thankful, grateful, pleased, accepted, accomplished, a winner.
Step 6: Open your eyes slowly once you feel like a winner. Commit yourself to practicing this mental image until it becomes a reality for you. Remember, to become a winner takes patience, persistence, and commitment to change.